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A Baby Talks |
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I did not ask to be
made. I did not ask to be born. I did not choose my parents. I did
not choose my sex. I did not choose my race or color. I did not choose
my place or country of birth. I did not even choose what kind of
a creature I would be, whether human or four-legged animal. It was
you. My father and
mother who chose to make me. I am little and helpless.
I cannot talk, I cannot move about, can do little more than wave
my arms and legs. I left the comfort and safety of my mother's womb
where I had to neither
breathe, eat, or empty my bladder or bowels. The umbilical cord from my mother took care of all of these tasks. As soon as the cord
is cut, I am on my own. I have to start to breathe in order to get oxygen. And I have to be provided with clothes and cover to
keep me warm. My stomach has to have food, preferably
from my mother's breasts. It is all a drastic change, one wrought with dangers and hazards, one that requires the constant attention of my parents or others, if I am to survive and prosper. Thus, I need their unconditional love and tender loving care (TLC). For the first several months of my life, I can do no wrong for I know nothing of manners or of good or bad behavior. I need patience and forgiveness for any mishaps that may occur because of my presence. So if I do not have
this unconditional love of my parents, it may be better that I be placed for adoption with parents who can provide that for me.
Because I am going to need 24-hour-a-day care and attention for several
months. I should be my
parents most precious possession, and my care their most important job. If I am
lucky they, during the next 18 years, will rear me into a healthy, useful, law-abiding citizen. |